Heirloom Memoir Writing
by
Inez Haythorn
I have
always been fascinated by the lifestyles and traditions of the
past, especially the eras of my mother and grandmother. Since my
grandmother was born in 1892, and my mother in 1916, quite a span
of history is covered by their lives.
By recording the stories and events of our ancestors' lives, we
not only preserve memories, but it gives us a deeper sense of who
we are. These happenings are so easily forgotten if we don't write
them down. Heirloom memoir writing is a simple way to capture your
family's past, or even your own. It's never too early to start.
Here are a few simple ideas to get you started.
1. Make a commitment to write a little every day. Set aside
fifteen minutes for writing. Don't overwhelm yourself with too
much. Enjoy it.
2. Decide on topics. Narrow them down. Be specific. I've written
about laundry care in the 1920's, Depression quilts, country
dinners of my great-grandparents, and old fashioned homemaking
routines. I've told the story of my grandparents' travels to the
country in their Velie, an old time car. Once you start thinking,
more and more ideas will come to you. Write about what interests
you about the past.
3. Talk to your parents, grandparents, and older relatives. Before
you do, write out a list of questions you want to ask them, or
points you wish to cover. Get their permission to tape record the
conversation. This way you can go back and take notes at your own
speed.
Don't worry about too much organization at this point. Just write
down everything you can. Take thorough notes. Make sure your
information is accurate.
4. Make an outline. Start organizing your information. Go down
through your notes and place each fact under the appropriate
topic. Remember, you're still jotting facts. Don't be concerned
about complete sentences yet.
5. Create a rough draft. Now start turning your outline into an
article or story. Each Roman numeral can be a paragraph. Turn the
facts into complete sentences.
6. Write your final copy. Polish up your work. Use a
spell-checker, thesaurus, or dictionary. Check grammar and
punctuation. Make your words and sentences descriptive and
interesting.
7. Publish your writing. After you have compiled a collection of
stories and articles, it is time to publish them. This could be as
sophisticated as using a real publisher, or simply typing them out
and placing them in a scrapbook along with old pictures. Whichever
direction you decide to go, there are many resources to help you
out.
Remember, you are creating a priceless heirloom when you record
family history stories. The time and effort you put into it now will not
only give you information and enjoyment, but will be a rich heritage to
leave to your children and grandchildren.